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A Budget Kitchen Remodel-By Guest Blogger, Author Jean Marie Stanberry

I had a dream…of a new kitchen.  Unfortunately my husband was not a big fan of the idea.  He didn’t especially like our kitchen, but he really didn’t want to go into debt, just to get us the kitchen of our dreams.  We had been saving up money in an effort to avoid going into debt and had saved up about $10,000, so we made that our budget.  

Our plan was to keep the footprint of the kitchen the same to save money.  Unfortunately the cabinets had to go.  The configuration was just bad and they were poor quality, so we were unable to salvage any of them.  My plan was to rework the cabinet layout to maximize the space in our small kitchen, keeping the appliances and sink where they were to save costs.  We also eliminated the dust catching space above the cabinets and took them all the way to the ceiling, this way we gained tons of storage in the same amount of space.  I need a step ladder to reach the items on the top shelves, but I reserved those shelves for things I use infrequently like platters.  Our house is rustic Montana style so we opted for knotty Alder cabinets, at just over seven thousand dollars, it was our biggest purchase, but I love them and they are top of the line. I made sure I had plenty of drawers, including the large pot drawers that I had been eyeing for so long.

We also needed flooring, our kitchen is part of a great room so we wanted wood flooring throughout.  We saved money by buying our tongue and groove flooring from a mill and installing, staining and finishing it ourselves.  It was quite an undertaking but we estimated that we saved about $10,000 by doing it this way.  Unfortunately, when we ripped out the ceramic tile we found out that our patio door had been leaking and needed to be replaced.  We bought a new energy efficient french door set and had a friend install it.  This fortunately, only set us back about $900.00.

We weren’t sure what to do for countertops, we wanted granite, but really didn’t want to pay the $3,000-3,200 that was estimated to give us the granite we wanted.  We looked at other options but nothing really caught our eye till our cabinet stylist suggested that we look at live edge slab counters.  I had seen them used as desktops, but never in a kitchen.  We went to visit another client who had recently installed these types of countertops and we were hooked, they were completely gorgeous and the price was right, about $550.  We didn’t put the clear coat  finish on them as many people do.  We used food safe, organic walnut oil and finished them like a butcher block and we have found this method beautiful and easy to care for.

My big splurge was my hammered copper sink, I looked around a lot and finally found one for $550.  More than I had wanted to pay for a sink, but it’s pretty unique and I love it.  The matching faucet was about $225.

I still wanted my island to have a stone surface of some sort.  I like to make pasta, so a marble or granite counter was preferable for that surface.  It wasn’t a huge surface so it was suggested to me that we go to a granite fabricator and find out if they had any remnants for sale.  This is also a great idea for a bathroom.  Make sure you go to an actual granite fabricator.  Lots of places sell granite, not everyone is a fabricator.  We got to look through the remnants to find a workable size and thickness and the fabricator cut it to our size and gave us the edge we wanted, all for just $450.00.  I know, such a deal!

As for light fixtures, we were lucky, we already had pot lights in our kitchen so I merely had to replace the light over our sink and our dining table light.  This turned out to be the cheapest part of my project.  I found an old copper colander at an antique store for $15 and I made that into a light for over my sink.  The light for my dining table was a little more difficult.  I wanted something classic looking, but stylish that would fit in with the rustic style of my house.  I searched everywhere and my main stumbling block was everything was made in China.  I forgot to mention this part, but my husband will not buy anything that is made in China.  Try finding a light fixture that’s made in the US, I dare you.

Eventually I found what I was looking for.  At our local Restore, you know the resale shop that sells things to make money for Habitat for Humanity, I found an old brass light fixture with a cute frosted glass shade.  I brought that for $15 and took it home, took it apart, spray painted it with oil rubbed bronze spray paint and  voila, I had the light fixture I had been looking for!

In the end, we went slightly over our $10,000 budget, but keep in mind, we replaced the floor in our entire great room and we had the unexpected expense of having to replace our patio door.  We did all the work ourselves except for the patio door and we also had a craftsman install the crown molding above our cabinets.  

We are proud to say we used local products and craftsmen as much as possible with the exception of my copper sink, which was imported from India and our granite which came from India as well.  You can have the kitchen of your dreams on a small budget, you just have to be willing to think outside the box, and be willing to compromise.

You can see more by Jean Stanberry on her website jeanstanberry.com or follow her on twitter @jeanstanberry

Jean is author of “Laying Low In Hollywood”, “One World United”, and “The Illusion Of Order”.Image

The case for laughter-guest blogger Author Jean Marie Stanberry

ImageAsk anyone who knows me and they will tell you I love to laugh.  Sometimes I even giggle inappropriately, but I imagine that can be attributed to a head injury in my distant past.  Laughter is appropriate to diffuse just about any tense situation, except maybe a funeral, (though I have laughed at a funeral…long story).  Kids love to laugh, adults love to laugh, even my dog seems to laugh when I scratch that certain spot on her belly.  

If you work with people on a daily basis you know how important it is to be friendly, but sometimes being friendly isn’t enough.  As a surgical nurse I work with people who are many times facing the scariest moment of their lives.  Facing surgery and placing your life in the hands of a staff you have only just met is scary and overwhelming, not only for the patient, but their families as well.  

When I introduce myself and ask all the questions I need to ask to get my job done, I try to be upbeat and infuse a little humor as well.  This helps to loosen people up, smile and actually helps them to relax a bit.  The more relaxed a person can be going into surgery, the better they do post operatively.  Not an official study mind you, just what I’ve observed in my 24 year nursing career.  People that are nervous and uptight have more pain and post operative nausea and vomiting.

I realize some people don’t take well to humor, you just have to play it by ear.  If I open with a witty quip and my patient gives me a blank stare, I know there is a possibility nothing I say can make it better for this person.  Many times though I have been entertained myself by witty patients and their quick retorts and I must say, nothing makes my day happier than to share my comedy routine with a patient or family member.

I’m terrible at remembering jokes, but I often ask my patients to tell one, if I think it will help them to refocus their mind.  I have even had a patient start to tell a joke as he was drifting off to sleep, unfortunately, he fell asleep before he made it to the punch line.  But like any good comedian, he wanted the laughs.  He woke up in the recovery room and recited the punchline like a pro.

Like anything else, humor can be annoying if it’s overused, so use it sparingly, but I do believe that having a great sense of humor and laughing more is the key to a happy life.  🙂

Who do you want to be today?

Every day we have a chance to either be something positive or something negative.  If we just took a second to think, before we acted maybe there would be less hate in this world.  Sometimes holding your tongue, holding a door open or just giving someone a smile can be the most noble thing in the world.  Eventually, you will begin to feel better yourself, because positive energy, much like negative energy, is contagious.  Feeding into someone else’s negativity won’t improve the situation at all, it may even mess up your entire day.  

Everyone out there is fighting their own battle inside their head, sometimes there is nothing we can do to help them.  But if we treat everyone we meet with kindness, at least we didn’t contribute to their misery

The Ladies take the ice

Today in Sochi is the start of the ladies figure skating competition, probably the most anticipated competition in the Olympics.  The short program will get underway this morning and NBC will broadcast their cut of the competition this evening.  

The US has three great competitors in the mix with Gracie Gold, Ashley Wagner and Polina Edmunds.  But as with any competition, this is not going to be easy.  In the mix we have relative newcomer Russian skater Yulia Lipnitskaya and Korean superstar Yuna Kim.  Not to mention that Mao Asada and Akiko Suzuki are also powerful competitors, though they have been known to have an off day.

Best of luck to all the ladies today, we can’t wait to watch!

The Winter Blahs!

There gets to be a time,  even in a winter lover’s heart, that all the snow, slush and short days become a annoyance at best, and our thoughts turn to a yearning for spring.  Don’t blame the poor groundhog, we were destined for 6 more weeks of winter anyway, but what can we do to make those weeks go by faster?

Get busy!  A new workout, project or even a short vacation can slingshot your emotions enough to propel you to spring.  Even a weekend away from the monotony can help boost your spirits.  If that is not possible, try a small home improvement project or even just a night in front of the fire with a good book.

Whatever you do, break out of your routine a bit and spring will be here before you know it!

Is customer service dead?

Sometimes I think the youth of today is watching too many zombie movies.  I was out to dinner with my family and our waitress looked suspiciously like a zombie.  Vacant eyes, no smile, uncombed hair and she moved at a snail’s pace.  I hope this was not the poor girl’s normal demeanor and perhaps she had a death in the family or something, but then why would you come to work?  What is the most important thing you put on in the morning?  A smile, if you aren’t wearing one of these you will repel people all day.